What you are is what you have been. What you’ll be is what you do now.Buddha via http://zenhabits.net/2009/07/the-essential-motivation-handbook/

Important human relationship safety tip: correct answer to ‘do you know what I am thinking?’ is ‘no’http://blogs.msdn.com/ericlippert/archive/2009/07/02/the-correct-answer-is-no.aspx